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I’m a successful 28 year old Aussie and I sleep with married men all the time – I don’t consider it cheating and most of the time neither do they


A young Australian woman who sleeps with married men has revealed why she doesn’t feel guilty and doesn’t consider it ‘cheating’.

Katija Cortez from Sydney finds dating difficult and says she is richer and more successful than most men she meets.

The 28-year-old accountant-turned-escort told FEMAIL it was «hard to say» how many married men she had been intimate with in the past three years, as discussing relationships with clients is considered «unprofessional» and a «mood killer».

However, in her experience, most married men speak highly of their wives and often don’t consider paid sex to be cheating.

“I would say about 50 percent of my clients are married or in a relationship. It’s hard to say for sure, though, because I’m sure a lot of people are in relationships that just don’t nurture it. Other girls told me that almost all their clients are married,» said Katija.

Katija Cortez from Sydney has a hard time dating and isn’t sure how many married men she’s slept with

The 28-year-old escort (pictured with a friend) told FEMAIL that the married men she sleeps with often compliment their wives or partners.

The 28-year-old escort (pictured with a friend) told FEMAIL that the married men she sleeps with often compliment their wives or partners.

“Denying service to someone based on their relationship would be considered discrimination in any other industry.

“I don’t think I’ve ever had a married client who would ever talk badly about his wife. The only people who ever show frustration with their partners are those who are going through messy divorces, but even then they will usually speak very politely about their partner.”

Katija, who was once an accountant at one of Sydney’s Big Four firms, said men who are unhappy with their sex lives at home seek out escorts because it’s «easier and more discreet than having an affair».

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She claimed that affairs come with baggage and feelings, whereas in her field it’s purely physical.

“I don’t like to call it cheating when a married man sees me because there are no romantic feelings involved. They come to me because they want to laugh, to be held and to be pleased,” she said.

Katija, who was once an accountant at one of Sydney's Big Four firms, said men who are unhappy with their sex lives at home seek out escorts because it's

Katija, who was once an accountant at one of Sydney’s Big Four firms, said men who are unhappy with their sex lives at home seek out escorts because it’s «easier and more discreet than having an affair».

Katija claimed that affairs come with baggage and are often about feelings, whereas in her line of work it's purely physical.

Katija claimed that affairs come with baggage and are often about feelings, whereas in her line of work it’s purely physical. «I don’t like to call it cheating when a married man sees me because there’s no romantic feelings involved,» she said.

And Katija seems to know exactly what married men want besides sex.

“I actually find it quite touching when clients talk lovingly about their partners. The reason they see me has nothing to do with them not loving their wives and family,” she said.

All they (some men) want from me is intimacy to hold, hug, kiss, hug. I was actually surprised at how many men want these intimate things that are often thought of as something that only women want.

«I think a lot of women don’t realize that most men are just as sensitive and vulnerable as we are, and they also crave intimacy.»

Another reason married men may turn to an escort is because their marriage is falling apart or they are getting a divorce.

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«Or sometimes they just don’t like each other very much anymore and are described to me as ‘roommates’ rather than husband and wife, but stay together for family reasons,» said Katija.

He also has a message for the partners of his married clients.

«Wives need to understand that we prostitutes don’t go chasing after married men and drag them to our hotel rooms. Married men voluntarily seek us out. We are not the problem,” she said.

«Problems always start at home. I don’t support cheating, but I also don’t believe in monogamy because I’ve seen time and time again that truly faithful relationships are rare.”

She claimed that male escorts also have clients who are married women who «report the same issues» of dissatisfaction with their sex lives with their husbands.



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